Our BUMPY Road to Parenthood

Our road was a very bumpy one...

My husband and I are High School Sweethearts who began dating at 14 and who got married right out of college at age 23. We couldn't wait to start a family together.

We couldn't get pregnant on our own so we needed to see a fertility specialist. It took three years before we finally had a reason to celebrate.

When I got pregnant we told everyone right away, we were so excited. Unexpectedly, at 12 weeks, just when we thought it was "safe", the routine ultrasound showed no heartbeat... we were devastated. Life was never the same after that.

We decided to try again. Ultrasounds were scary for us after last time - not exciting like it is for other parents. Yet again, the tech grew quiet and I knew something was wrong. This time; however, there were 4 heartbeats instead of one - Quadruplets. We went to all the best doctors, read all the statistics, but decided that we needed to have these babies. I couldn't terminate some of them after all we had been through. I was on bed rest at the hospital for three months.

At 21 weeks I went into labor, and it couldn't be stopped. It was too soon. Alyssa Nicole, Ryan Nicholas, Kayla Ann, and Jonathan Tyler were born on November 2, 2004 at about 1 pound each. They left this life too soon and are now my angels in heaven.

Leaving the hospital after a pregnancy with no baby to go home with is the worst possible feeling imaginable.

Finally, I got pregnant once again. This time they saw only one heartbeat and I was relieved. The next appointment at the doctors revealed another heartbeat - it was twins! I was scared, but happy too. This pregnancy was relatively less complicated. I was in and out of the hospital a couple of time due to preterm labor, and on bed rest for a few weeks. My beautiful twins were born early at 32 weeks, but healthy and so strong. On June 26, 2006 Ryan Christopher and Casey Nicole were born via c-section. It seemed to take forever. I was so nervous, here we were again with premature babies. What would happen...

I heard them scream, and relieved I wept. My babies could breathe! The battle wasn't over, but my little peanuts at 3 lbs. 8 oz. and 3 lbs. 13 oz. were strong fighters. They spent a little over a month in the NICU but were so strong. The never required lung support. And continued to grow each day.

Today Ryan and Casey are 5-year-old twins full of life. We are blessed to share our lives with them.


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